Oct 1 / Bernard Shannon

Practices for Accepting Change

These practices bring the article’s reflections into the body through gentle movement, natural breathing and stillness. Rooted in the spirit of Daoist cultivation, they invite us to receive what a season has given, soften our hold on what is ending and rest before beginning again. Let each practice be an exploration, allowing gratitude, grief and acceptance to unfold at their own pace.

1. Gathering the Harvest

To acknowledge what a completed season has given you.

• Stand or sit comfortably. Let your hands rest near your lower abdomen and allow your breathing to settle naturally.

• Slowly open your arms into a comfortable, rounded shape, as though embracing a small tree. Then draw your hands gently back toward your lower abdomen. Let the movement follow an easy rhythm without requiring the breath to match it.

• With each gathering movement, bring to mind something you received from a chapter that is ending: a lesson, a relationship, a capacity you developed.

• Repeat six times, then rest your hands.

• Ask quietly: “What nourishment can I carry forward?”

• Stay for a few breaths, allowing gratitude and sadness to share the same space.

2. Opening the Hands

To explore letting go without forcing yourself to feel ready.

• Rest your hands on your thighs, palms upward. Gently curl your fingers into loose fists. Notice the small effort involved in holding.

• Slowly uncurl your fingers. Feel the difference between holding and opening. Keep the shoulders comfortable and the breath unforced.

• Repeat several times. Bring to mind one expectation, responsibility or identity whose season may be ending. You do not need to resolve your feelings about it. Simply explore what it is like to loosen your grip a little.

• Ask: “What am I ready to stop holding so tightly?”

• Finish with your palms open. Let release be gradual; a small softening is enough.

3. Resting in the Quiet Field

To experience completion before reaching for another beginning.
• At the end of your qigong practice—or any ordinary task—pause before moving on.

• Sit or stand with your hands resting comfortably. Feel the ground supporting you. Allow your eyes to soften and your breath to find its own pace.

• Silently acknowledge: “This is complete for now.”

• Remain for one to three minutes. Notice any impulse to improve, repeat, plan or fill the space. Let the impulse be present without immediately following it.

• Ask: “Can I allow this moment to need nothing more?”

• Close by looking around and gently returning to your day. Like a field after harvest, you are allowed a period of quiet.

• These are gentle reflective practices inspired by the article. Keep movements within a comfortable range, and let the breath remain natural.